I love Batman/Bruce Wayne (especially the Christopher Nolan Dark Knight trilogy). Batman’s brilliant as a comic book hero because he has no superpowers. He’s just a chap with gadgets, questionable bedtime habits, and an intense prep routine (a contingency plan for taking down Superman is not paranoia; that’s preparation). Most speakers seem to avoid preparation: […]
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Some people seem to think that confident speakers simply don’t experience nerves. That’s not even close to what’s actually happening! Nerves are like that one colleague who always comes to the meeting uninvited. The trick isn’t getting rid of them; it’s getting them to behave and perhaps even help. When you feel nervous, your body
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What makes you tick?What makes you uncomfortable?What do you love?Why are you speaking? Share some or all of these things in the first minute and you’ll create a connection with your audience. Good communication is all about rapport, empathy, relatability, authenticity, humility, and humour. Stand-up comics often start with the most important thing people need
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I’m driven by a fear of failure. My default assumption of most unexpected negative things I experience is that I must have messed up. This became embedded through years of floundering in education and full-time employment. “We’re concerned about…” and “I was hoping that…” are grim, familiar phrases from authority figures I was desperate to
Want to achieve speaking confidence? Of course you do – it’s the key to everything you desire: success at an interview, interest on a date, or being convincing at your work review. I bang on about getting speaking experience, but also vital for your growth is doing the research: I find that while doing research
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